Andrew, age 2 1/2. April 8th, 2010. One week before the horror. |
On April 17th, 2010, after spending my morning running in the Pat Tillman race on the campus of ASU, the strange appearance of Andrew's eye (a slight bulging), which I had noticed for a few days, started to worry me. Coincidentally, we spent the late afternoon and early evening with my friend who happens to be a neurologist. I asked her to look at his eye, and she was concerned. We left our dinner at the Olive Garden and went to the ER.
After a CT scan, we stood there staring at a the black and white image of a tumor which had grown behind Andrew's eye orbit. The nightmare began. That Tuesday, a neurosurgeon successfully removed the tumor.
Andrew saying "cheese." |
The day we got his diagnosis |
We found out it was cancerous...an aggressive cancer which would just grow back if not killed by chemotherapy and radiation. I will not name the cancer, for emotional reasons. It feels like uttering the name of a demon. I don't want to give it any recognition.
So our days and nights in the hospital began. The agony of watching my son suffer began.
In July and August we spent 7 weeks in Houston, TX for consultation and radiation at MD Anderson.
Andrew receiving radiation at MD Anderson |
The chemo routine was originally very difficult on Andrew's body. He was in a lot of pain and non-stop painkillers. Thankfully, his little body has adjusted. He now typically does quite well with the chemo, but his blood is taking more of a beating. And yet Andrew has continued on. He is coping. He is thriving. He is still loving life and happy. He is alive.
It is still hard for me to believe. The last four months have felt like four years. I still cannot fully get my mind around it. How did this happen to my sweet boy?
Update: October 13, 2010
We go in to the hospital tomorrow for round 11 out of 14 total chemos. We have not stayed overnight in the hospital for more than three months. Considering that we spent almost every weekend in the hospital for the first few months, I consider it pretty close to a miracle. Please pray that every last cancer cell is obliterated by these last few chemos. Thank you!
On December 11, 2010 he completed his last round of chemo.
On December 13, 2010 he was back in the hospital with a life-threatening bacterial infection in his blood.
On January 3, 2011, he had several scans. All of which came back negative and clear!!
He received his next set of scans in April 2011--clear!!